About Tom Stortz

Enjoying my last few responsibility free years left.

Contact Crisis

This is how car accidents happen. On my way to work today my contact was irritating my eye. While driving, I decided to take it out and put it back in. I’m at a red light and remove the contact. While I’m looking at the contact and deciding if it’s inside-out, the light turns green. While doing this motion the contact falls off my hand and lands right in between the seat and the middle console. Now I’m driving with blurred vision in one eye and my depth perception is horrendous and need to retrieve the contact from the abyss. Contacts dry out after a few minutes so I had to save the contact while I was driving or else i would be a one eyed man for the rest of the day. I start moving my seat back and miraculously am able to retrieve the contact. The contact has all this dust and dirt on it from the floor beneath my seat and this creates major irritation if you put it in your eye. I had a bottle of water (without it I’d have failed) and used one hand to open the bottle, my other hand is holding the contact, and my knees to steer all the while as I can hardly see with only one contact in my eye. I dump the water on my hand and it gets all over my crotch area. I do my best to clean the contact and try to re-insert it back in my eye but its still burns like crazy and that’s a horrible feeling. For some reason if you get something in your eye your nose starts running and I didn’t have any tissues so I’m sitting there half blind with a running nose and still trying to drive effectively. Eventually I found the contact on the right spot of my eye after cleaning it in water again and now things are back to normal. Great start to the day.

By |2012-03-01T09:18:05-05:00March 1st, 2012|My Life|1 Comment

Perception is YOUR reality

Look at the picture, what do you see?

At first glance I see a beautiful, young woman in a fur coat and stupid hat. This is the right answer. However, within this picture lies an old woman who looks homeless. This is also the right answer. Now if two people get together and one person sees things one way and the other another, an argument can ensue. This argument is a good example of why you have to keep an open mind when discussing absolutely anything in life. Even though you might be right, so can the other person.

I noticed this just recently but I was wrong by saying Jason Bateman sucks. The point isn’t so much that he doesn’t suck (he still pretty much does) but I liked him in Arrested Development. Maybe it’s the role or the just the show in general but let me relate this to the picture. If you were to ask me months ago what I thought of Jason Bateman, I’d flat out say he sucks. Now a few months down the road I have changed my tune a little bit and think he’s OK. This is a complete perception issue and should be understood when evaluating anything. People’s perceptions can change based on new information or the passage of time. I think it shows that you have to believe in your own opinion first and foremost and be prepared to listen to everyone else with the understanding that you can alter your own mindset. Staying firm in your beliefs is probably the recipe for a stubborn, blockhead.

By |2012-03-01T00:21:12-05:00March 1st, 2012|My Brain|2 Comments

Cady Groves – This Little Girl

While trying to find some info on Cady Groves I came up with a fascinating discovery, there is hardly any information about her. This was a decent interview but she didn’t even have a Wikipedia page. From the few sources I read, she seems to be a 21 year old from Oklahoma who is a newcomer to the pop scene. She has a few songs on her myspace page with about a hundred thousand views and her popular duet in the song “Oh Darling” by Plug in Stereo. She completely makes that song though and this new song by her is called “This Little Girl.” With about 279,000 views I wouldn’t be surprised if it catches steam.

Problem being is that this song’s lyrics can’t be taken any other way than a little girl who is contemplating murder on her boyfriend who has “hurt her”. This bothers me. Now “hurt her” can of course be taken to various degrees but it’s hard to imagine most types of hurt can warrant murder. I think this is the wrong message and I could understand if parent groups are outraged if their children listen to this. I guess I just wonder where this type of lyrics come from. Is this Cady Groves, a 21 year old bad girl, sitting in a room thinking of these lyrics? Did you listen to “Oh Darling?” We are talking polar opposites here and it’s really messing with an image. Is this intentional? Does this much thought go into this from the producers end? This song just struck me as odd because of the theme and even I thought this went a little “over the edge” as Cady puts it.

By |2012-02-29T00:49:03-05:00February 29th, 2012|Music|2 Comments

Vacation on the Parents?

Anyone who reads this post I think it would be a good idea to participate in the poll to the right. I was talking about my vacation to New Zealand with a few friends and they were asking if Sam was going. Sam is 20 years old and hasn’t had much experience out of the country. My initial thought was that if Sam wanted to go he could pay for himself and join us on the trip. They disagreed and wondered why my parents wouldn’t pay for him to go. From personal experience, I haven’t taken a dime of my parents money since I was 18. Now I know they paid for my education which is a bill I’d probably still be paying but I paid my rent and any books and random BS since I was 18 without a handout from my parents. I worked during the Summers to pay my way through the year. Now I don’t necessarily agree that my parents should pay for a vacation like this that probably costs about 2,000 dollars. I’m curious to know what other people think about parents paying for their children to take trips? Is 18 the cut off? Is 21? Where does it end if ever? Any thoughts?

By |2016-11-01T23:25:37-04:00February 28th, 2012|My Life|11 Comments

You Sick Bro?

I had an experience which makes me a firm believer in the following idea that bacteria makes you sick. I spent the last 4 days in Florida and felt 100%. I come back home for one day and when I woke up this morning I felt like I was developing a sore throat. The simple thought is that people get sick from time to time and that’s what happened to me. This is not how I think. I consider every thing I could have done that could have given me a sore throat. Any interaction I might have had with somebody’s germs or some other possible bacteria influences my body. You don’t get sick for no reason and after thinking about what I was drinking out of, what I was eating, what I was cleaning my mouth with, I came to the conclusion that my electric tooth brush that I hadn’t used in months was the culprit. My regular tooth brush was in my travel bag so I decided to use a different toothbrush and I absolutely think that it had to have had some bacteria on it that interacted with something in my throat. I don’t get sick for no reason and I wonder how many other people think the same way. Just some food for thought.

By |2016-11-01T23:24:43-04:00February 27th, 2012|My Brain|0 Comments

Most Underrated

Flo-Rida

I might be a bit off here calling him underrated but I still am not sure people realize how much popular music he has come up with. Notice I used popular and not good. Bottom line though is that even though every single “rap” he creates sounds exactly the same, he has his name on so many tracks that he has to be considered at the top in terms of worldwide appeal. Just to give you an idea of some of the songs that are labeled his or he has an appearance in:
Low, Right Round, Sugar, In the Ayer, Where Them Girls At, Club Can’t Handle Me, Who Dat Girl, Hangover, Good Feeling and Wild Ones
I don’t listen to a lot of this popular mainstream music but I’m aware of its existence and I’ve heard of every one of these songs. That’s at least 10 well known tracks in a 3-4 year period which is hard to do. I think the fact that chorus on all the songs are so damn catchy that he’s just along for the ride and this would actually make him overrated. Results speak though.

Jeremy Lin

Jeremy Lin underrated!?!?! Yes, he is underrated. Why? Simply because his team is 9-3 since he’s been getting substantial minutes and that is getting overlooked by “linsanity”. The easiest thing to say about Jeremy is that he’s a flash in the pan and his day will fade just like so many others. I tend to think that this will not be the case and here’s why, he’s smart. He thinks about the game at a high analytical level. I can tell from listening to him talk that he learns how teams are defending his tendencies and he’s constantly thinking of ways to beat them. He turns the ball over a ridiculous amount of times but that will improve with experience. He fills up the stat sheets and as long as he keeps winning, I don’t see why people think he’ll burn out. Underrated might be the wrong word but I actually think he’ll get better (or remain as hot as he’s been) before he gets worse which would prove plenty of people wrong.

Arrested Development

I’ve caved and will give this show credit. It’s subtle, witty humor has come a long way with me. I still don’t think it’s the greatest show on television which I’m sure people think but it has its hilarious moments. Each character has their own unique offering that just gives the show so much substance. My personal favorite is Buster Bluth and the “hey brother” but his character is hilarious in just about every scene. Gob is such comic relief that it’s a shame Will Arnett sort of bombs in other roles. Portia is smoking hot and it sucks she’s a lesbo. My pure hate for Jason Bateman has subsided as I feel he does a good job keeping the story moving without getting in the way or being annoying which differs from my earlier thoughts. The Mom and Dad are wonderful and Tobias has some of the best lines in network TV that I’ve ever heard. 3 seasons is indeed too short for a high quality network series like this.

By |2016-11-01T23:24:09-04:00February 27th, 2012|My Brain|0 Comments

Back to Reality

Today was the first full work day since last Wednesday. I had mixed emotions throughout as I enjoyed the networking and meeting people of the past few days compared to this daily routine. I don’t think this is too unusual though and it will feel like normal in due time. Obviously I’m pretty excited for a week off to see Jeff and Nicole in New Zealand but I still have to get through this week. If you’ve been reading the last few posts you’ll see somewhat of a transformation in myself but I think it’s just an adjustment period. Meaning that I’ll just have to assimilate these thoughts into my day to day instead of constantly focusing and writing about them. It’s good though to share this type of enlightenment period so that other people can read about things that I experience that alter my life.

The other thing is that I find myself writing more about what’s going on in my life like this is a therapy session and this blog is my outlet. My feeling is that this isn’t the reason people go to my site. Finding yourself is fine but I don’t feel like it’s entertaining material. I guess I find it interesting that I’m more aware of these thoughts currently then ever before in my entire life. Trying to understand the more important aspects of life. No one cares how much money is in your bank account when you die or all the time spent playing video games. I know that I’ve wasted HUGE amounts of time in my life and it’s just trying to keep looking forward and living the right way. I promise this will be my last too personal post and I’ll give some better time wasting material. Till then.

By |2012-02-27T21:12:56-05:00February 27th, 2012|My Life|0 Comments

Mission Statement

This list should be constantly updated and tweaked.

-Be more active among family and friends
-Be outgoing and listen
-Give back your gifts and talents, don’t keep them for yourself
-Learn and grow everyday
-Stay away from destructive people and activities
-Balance life, business, family, and friends
-Focus on your for values, forget other people’s talk
-Build yourself through practice, accept there will be rejection and losses
-Have confidence in yourself and your beliefs
-Be there for other people without them asking
-Honesty brings integrity
-Don’t focus on the negative, look for an end goal and the means to achieve it
-Experience all life has to offer because its short – Live it!
-Don’t let money consume you
-Moderation is key in pleasure activities
-Don’t get stuck on poor past decisions, learn from your mistakes
-Embrace the opportunities
-Gain perspective from others strengths

By |2012-02-27T16:54:19-05:00February 27th, 2012|My Brain|1 Comment

Trip Observations

I want to preface this post with the information that I read a book called the 7 habits of Highly Effective People. The general themes are how to listen effectively, how to schedule your time, how people create synergy, and how to live with a value system and principals. There are so many other points but the general idea is improving as a human being. I finished the book on Friday but the principals were fresh on my mind while I was going through these past 4 days. To say that this was a life changing book is accurate. I felt that I was applying things I learned from the book and getting results from people that I have never done before in the past. This was a serious effort that has me unbelievably optimistic about my future. My ability to communicate effectively with people is going to be the most important skill I can take with me for life. Having people open up to you and you being able to do the same is what enriches life. All that being said, here are some interesting things I came across on my trip. These will range from randomness to more important encounters.

1. The Southwest Airlines number system sucks. Basically there is no assigned seating and you get a number that allows you to pick any seat you want. What happens is that the people who get on first choose the aisle seat or the window seat. This leaves the middle seat which just makes for awkwardness and would be completely avoided if they just gave you a damn seat.

2. The Rock is my boy. I don’t usually bring my personal relationships to the blog but we really get along. No topics are off limits and we can crack up on everything from taking dumps to life’s bigger problems. It’s nice to have a friend who is cool with you being you. The level of trust is there and communication just works. I think we’ve always had a good friendship but added a level this weekend and I think that comes from some of the book’s ideas.

3. The synergy at the horse track that allowed me to win a few hundred bucks was real. I didn’t get lucky by accident. If this particular example wasn’t a clear message of how people can feed off of other people, then maybe I am just a lucky moron. If the Rock and I went to the track by ourselves, I wouldn’t have had the same result. Being around someone who taught me the ins and outs of the track was the reason for the success. This other guy was a really nice guy who was our age and we just worked well together. Meeting him for the very first time and after an hour or two together we were like best friends. I could totally call this guy every weekend to hit the track if I wanted to because we just hit it off. I know this seems totally gay but I promise you that most people can’t go to a horse track and win money like I did. Yes it’s luck but for this particular day, there was more working than that.

4. One more encounter I had this weekend was with a person who we do business with. We talked about so many good topics and I think the both of us left the conversation with strong impressions of one another. Age difference and any other road blocks aside, the learning that took place from my end about him and his life was invaluable and I hope he could see my degree of seriousness in trying to be successful. The understanding that two sides of agreements have to be mutually beneficial for ideas to really work out is paramount. It seems so obvious but most people are selfish and only look at things from their point of view.

It is weird for me to explain why I have been unable to deal with life in such positive experiences up to this point but I really think I’ve broken through. I also don’t think that you’ll notice anything significantly different in me in real life but something under the surface has changed. I’ve also written down about 20 different thoughts that I’ll share in the near term which can give a better understanding of the principals I’ve found work for myself. Everyone is unique and feelings differ depending on who you are but as is the case with this blog, you can learn about me.

By |2012-02-27T16:36:58-05:00February 27th, 2012|My Brain|1 Comment

PHL to MCO to FLL to PHL

I had a nice 4 day stretch which was a welcomed change of pace from the norm. On Thursday I woke up at 3:30 AM and drove to the airport for a 6:35 flight. I left my car in economy overnight parking and got super lucky getting a spot near the entrance. At 11 dollars a night this was preferred over taking taxis. Everything went smooth with the flight and I arrived in Orlando at 9:30. As I got in a cab at the airport I realized that the hotel I booked wasn’t very close to the convention center where I needed to be for the show. The place I was staying was called Mystic Dunes which was a 4 star hotel and I got a villa for 129 bucks which seemed like a steal. Unfortunately it cost me more money in taxis to and from the convention center that any savings was wiped out. I think this was a good display of my character though because I didn’t let this little speed bump deter me from having a good time. The show was good and I had a really great conversation with a vendor at the Capital Grille in Orlando which was worth the trip itself. After the show I spent the night at the resort which was more family oriented than anything but I still made it work.

On Friday I woke and I did something really stupid. I decided to make some coffee and have never used a coffee maker before in my life. I understood the filter and put some coffee beans in the filter and added water. Problem being was that I didn’t boil the water. To try to salvage the coffee I put the pot on the electric stove and that ended up burning the plastic off of the handle. Another bonehead move but not a big deal. My flight was at 5pm to Fort Lauderdale which didn’t give me a ton of time for anything other than the show. My overall impression of Orlando is that it was really spacious and nothing is close together. This leads to either a lot of taxis or making sure you have a car.

The flight to Lauderdale was about 45 minutes and the Rock picked me up from the airport. We went to his place and then got some Mexican food to eat. There was an unlimited drinks for 20 bucks at a local bar from 8-10pm and we decided to do that. I was drinking Grey Goose and Redbull, at least that’s what they said, and certainly got my money’s worth. At 10 we went to the W hotel where there was a swanky bar that served us these martinis for 14 dollars a piece. The bartender was a dime and we were working some game to see if we could show her an Eiffel tower. After we figured that we weren’t going to get anywhere we went to los olas which had a few more bars we hopped around to. We bought some nice cigars from a local joint and went back to the Blue Martini which is walking distance from his place. The Rock ordered some sort of Patron bomb which absolutely bombed the both of us. We went back to smoke the cigars and I was pretty much kaput. I couldn’t finish the cigar and it was making me nauseous. I think it was about 1 or 2 am but after that we called it a night.

I woke up at 9 the next morning, showered, and waited for the Rock to get up. He was still bombed from the night before but we decided to hit the Gulfstream which was a horse track. I brought 600 dollars to start the trip and was down to about 179 which included everything I did in Orlando. I spent about 100+ dollars the night before and was hoping that the 179 would last me the rest of the trip. At the Gulfstream we met up with a co-worker of the Rock’s and her husband was pretty knowledgeable about the horses. I went on an absolute tear under his tutelage and ended up winning somewhere in the 250 range hitting an exacta box one race and a trifecta (not boxed) in another. This was a crazy atmosphere and we really had a great time. After the track we went to Flannigan’s where I got some awesome ribs. This was at 5pm and it set my nutrition for the night. We called up a friend of ours from high school who lived near by and hung out with him for the rest of the evening. Even though we didn’t do anything all that exciting the conversation was really good and I enjoyed a relatively low key evening. My flight today was at 9:40 am which was a pain to get up for but I made it work. The flights once again were fine and I arrived back in Philly at 1pm which left plenty of time for a nap and some exercise. I ate a nice Dalessandro’s cheese steak for dinner and Ck4 and I watched the all star game to cap off a top notch 4 day weekend.

I know this isn’t my usual entry as I just documented everything I did without going into anything funny or specific but I want to save that for other posts and just keep this exactly what I did.

By |2012-02-26T23:53:37-05:00February 26th, 2012|My Life|0 Comments

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