“No one has it all figured out, especially not the people who are acting like they do and judging you because of it. Pretending to be something you aren’t because you’re trying to please a bunch of judgmental hypocrites and shitheads is not the way to be happy. Living the life you want to live is. It really is that simple.” This is the same book where Sam wrote about everyone wanting a good key but not a shitty lock.
The above part of the paragraph was the worthwhile portion to take out that applies to everything. In the book I’m reading, here is the first portion of it that I excluded for the vulgarity that I’m sure not everyone approves of:
“Ladies, be honest with yourself about who you are and have the courage to be that person. If you want to fuck, then go fuck. If you want to get drunk, get drunk. And there is nothing wrong with sucking a dick. If people try to judge you or shame you for doing safe, consensual things that make you happy, I can guarantee you they’re bad people. Tell them to lick the dark part of your ass and cut them out of your life.”