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If you go to meet people in places and situations you find uncomfortable, would you expect to find comfort in a person you meet there? I suppose this is why friends, coworkers, etc. – people in established comfort “zones” seem to always get together. Connection, to me at least, seems to be about just that. Finding, looking and discovering are very different things – but often applied to dating they get lumped together. No one “finds” or “discovers” someone – they are simply impacted by someone. There may be no formula.

You know what you want – and you are smart enough and passionate enough to realize this – something many cannot claim. Continue to be the self you know – allow others to impact that perception – welcome it – and life (and yourself) will evolve.

People have a strange way of sneaking up on you…but you need to be prepared to look.

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